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Friday, January 29, 2010

SURVIVING V-DAY AS A SINGLE

I've been without a Valentines date for a couple of years before I met my partner and believe me - I had my share of disappointments, worries and loneliness especially when Vday comes. So to help out those single ladies out there, here are some of the tips I've got to survive Valentines Day.

STAY AT HOME:
It' would be easy as Valentines Day this year falls on a Sunday. Just watch your favorite DVD or sleep all day. You need that extra energy for another busy work week tomorrow.

BLOCK COMPARISONS:
Don't spend time measuring yourself against happy couples. Remember, just because a person is partnered up on V-Day doesn't necessarily mean she's blissed out.

TURN OFF THE TV:
Made it through the day? Don' toss it all int a heart-shaped hamper by watching mushy, romantic TV shows. Rent a funny DVD instead.

GAB WITH PALS:
Commiserate with friends. It's perfectly okay to bring up your single gal pals and celebrate "Independence" instead of V-Day

Thursday, January 28, 2010

Excited for the Future

I admit, I sometimes worry so much. I want to make sure that after I resign from my current work, everything would be okey. I intend to resign after two years and work full time on my online job. I also intend to put up a small business to keep me busy or get a part time call center or teaching job so I can socialize with different people. I don't want to set aside my social life and I know I need to mingle with people as well to keep me sane. I sometimes feel I can't wait any longer and is thinking of resigning right away - but I know I need to focus on what was originally planned. I know that my officemates does have their own plans for their lives and that we do have different priorities - maybe that's the exact same reason why it seems so easy for them to hop from one company to another. Most of my peers are now demotivated and is planning of switching companies and I admit, somehow, I feel the same. But God is so good that He is helping me get back on the right track and He is helping me get back my focus to what I know is beneficial to me. All of these are temporary, if I give up now because of the pressures at work and work on a different company... I know that sooner or later, I would feel the same way on the next company I'll be working at. It would just be a vicious cycle - I've learned that to be able to successfully win your goal... you should be able to adapt to changes. Change is constant...especially in a work environment. Lord help me to focus ONLY on my goal. Amen.

Saturday, January 23, 2010

Another Year Without Divine

If my bestfriend is still alive, it would be her 30th birthday...most likely she already have her own family and a child of her own. She would have been a flight stewardess and was able to travel all over the world. But she stopped counting her birhday since she had her 25th...25 years of colorful and adventurous life is what she got.

I miss her, definitely miss her...especially now that our batch just recently had our own facebook page wherein we all could sign in and update each other about what's going on with our lives. I wished we still have her so she can write on our discussion wall and be with us on our reunion next month. I just hope I was able to let her feel that I love her when she was still alive and I know that she is now happy living the life that she deserves... a life without any fear, hurt or pain...

I love you bestfriend. I will still continue to remember you always as promised.. Happy Birthday...

Friday, January 08, 2010

Another Weight Loss Program

One of my new years resolution for the year is to lose weight. Almost every year for the past fifteen years, it has always been on the top of my list. I don't know why though it is my obsession to lose almost half of my body weight, I still cant seem to help myself from eating more than what is enough, My metabolism is also too low, I don't move much and most of my time are spent either in front of the television, in front of my computer or in my bed...sleeping. I don't want this kind of feeling anymore. I can't sit and cross my legs comfortably as how most of the girls are doing when they are sitting in a chair wearing skirt...I can't even wear a skirt! I have tried using different types of products on the market that promises good result but most of them failed.My friend Sam, my lesbian friend, who just recently resigned from the office told me about Herbalife. It is a premier nutrition and weight management company that sells out health products that are known to have positive effects on people who want's to lose weight. She said she tried the product for over a week and she can see and feel the difference in her appearance. I can tell she indeed shed a couple of pounds. I would like to try this product too, maybe I'll order one from Sam and check if it will also work for me. Wish me luck!

On Losing Another Friend

At last, it's my rest day! I with the whole team are really looking forward to this day as we are really feeling so stressed out due to a number of calls that we take these past couple of weeks. No avail time as in. Sup said it's most likely because most of Americans purchased a new laptop for Christmas and they are calling us for help on how to configure it. Anyways, after our shift last Wednesday (that would be Thursday morning), I together with most of my teammates went straight to Cafe Agogo to relax and just hang out. We really had a great time and just talked about our future plans and our views on what's happening to the office. We ate breakfast and had some beer. My friend Sam already passed her resignation. It's really a sad thing. She has been my friend for almost a year now...but I also know in the back of my mind that she is not happy in what she is doing anymore. She continues to fail her scorecard and we all know that sooner or later, she had to leave. What I am sad about is that when she passed her resignation letter to our coach, the coach bluntly said..."eh dito rin naman pala mapupunta to eh kasi hindi ka pumapasa sa scorecard..." ("this is the same exact path it would lead you because you are failing your scorecard") when they reviewed her performance for the past year. I feel bad for her because Coach should have at least try to console her and at least show a little sympathy. It's like putting a salt to a wound. I can't also blame Coach, he already have given her a lot of chances and yet she is not improving her scores. I think it's because she is stressed out and had a lot of issues in her family that she can hardly concentrate on her job. I just pray this resignation would help her ease her mind and focus on what she really wants.

I would definitely miss Sam. She is a type of lesbian who really does have a dream for herself. Someone, who inspite of ridicule and persecution she've got because of her gender still manages to stand up for her choice. I hope she finds her own niche and would be able to still fight her own battle.

Good night everyone!

the girls...

the boys...

the men....lol!

Saturday, January 02, 2010

Chillax Sunday


Just went home from a tiring day at work. After our shift, we went straight to Yoohoo Bar at Metrowalk to unwind, to eat and to console our friend Ice as she just recently lost her ex boyfriend. He died last January 31st due to a motorcycle accident and my friend is still mourning stage. I thought she just wants me and my other friend Melai to console her as she normally just confides to us so I canceled my appointment for today and just chose to spend the day with her as I feel she wants to cry and confide to us. To my surprise, she wants to invite our other teammates and wants to enjoy and laugh instead. I feel that she's already fine and since she already invited our teammates over, I thought of just backing out and proceed with my plan of meeting with my business partner. But my friends wants me to come so there you go, I went with them and spent the day laughing our hearts out at Metro Walk. We also met two of my teammates there and we really had a good time. I with GK and Tony rode a taxi together on our way home and I just dropped them off at Trinoma.

I met Jojo at Munoz and off we went to Waltermart to purchase this keyboard I'm using right now. I love it! I purchased it for only P295 and I just love the feeling of having to type on a keyboard as smoothly as this. I think I would be inspired to blog on a daily basis again. Bought a class A battery for my Sony Erickson handset used for my PLDT Landline which I use as my business phone and went home very tired but still manage to blog as I want to test if my keyboard is working perfectly fine, and it is! I need to rest now, I still have my shift tomorrow. Btw, I finally was able to give my teammates a gift for New Year. I put in a message on each and every greeting card to make it more personalized and I am glad they all love it.

By the way, Happy New Year to all! May this year be a good year to all of us!

Monday, December 14, 2009

Feeling the Christmas Pressure

Waaah, I can’t believe my last post on this blog was when Manny Pacquiao defeated Miguel Cotto last November 15! After that, my blog has’nt been getting that much attention from it’s master. I really can’t believe I let myself preoccupied with things which are not so important such as partying and socializing. I should stay focused on things that matters most and one of those are my freelance work as a blogger. For almost three years now, blogging has been an integral part of my life…through blogging, me and my hubby was able to live a convenient life though I am the only one working for us. Through blogging, I am somehow manage to improve my writing skills and grammar. I was also able to meet so many friends all over the world. My blogs also have been my silent friend that is willing to listen to me in my times of sorrow and happiness. I should get back on the right track, I should put my focus back to my goals. I really pray I can do multi task. By the way, my sister who is based on Singapore would be back to celebrate the holidays with us so it would definitely would be a very busy two weeks for all of us. I hope I can conquer stress and pressure this time and make sure I set my priorities. In Jesus name I pray
amen!

Sunday, November 15, 2009

PACQUIAO WON BY TKO!

Yehey! Another victory for the Filipino people as Manny Pacquiao won over Miguel Cotto!

The fight is so intense and I bet most of the viewers are really satisfied with how well Manny manages to fight the Puerto Rico's pride with such intensity. Filipino Champion Manny Pacquiao (49-3-2, 37 KOs) stopped WBO welterweight champion Miguel Cotto (34-1, 27 KOs) in round twelve to win another world title in an unprecedented seventh weight division on Saturday night at the MGM Grand Garden Arena in Las Vegas. I was able to find a channel in Sopcast that showcases the fight through live video streaming (thanks sopcast!) The quality of the video is clear and what's best is that there's no lag or buffering needed!


Cotto dominated round four, but was dropped by a left uppercut at the end of the round. Cotto fought courageously but was rocked again in the sixth by Pacman’s hurtful shots coming in from all angles. Cotto began to box from the outside in the seventh with some success. However, Pacquiao continued to stalk him and break him down. Cotto was in survival mode down the stretch. Referee Kenny Bayless finally waved in off in round twelve. Time was :55.

It was indeed a great day for the Filipino people! Manny fought a good fight and is now a recipient of a world title in a seventh different weight division. You want to know why he always succeed in what he does? Because this is what he does before he goes to fight...


he prays...

("Commit to the LORD whatever you do, and your plans will succeed"..Proverbs 16:3)





-special thanks to pacquiao-vs-cotto.blogspot.com




Saturday, October 24, 2009

Saved At Sea

Found this very touching story from a christian problogger about a man's sacrifice to save another's soul...

"After a few of the usual Sunday evening hymns, the church’s pastor once again slowly stood up, walked over to the pulpit, and gave a very brief introduction of his childhood friend. With that, an elderly man stepped up to the pulpit to speak, “A father, his son, and a friend of his son were sailing off the Pacific Coast,” he began,” when a fast approaching storm blocked any attempt to get back to shore. The waves were so high, that even though the father was an experienced sailor, he could not keep the boat upright, and the three were swept into the ocean.

The old man hesitated for a moment, making eye contact with two teenagers who were, for the first time since the service began, looking somewhat interested in his story He continued,” Grabbing a rescue line, the father had to make a excruciating decision of his life…..to which boy would he throw the other end of the line. He only had seconds to make the decision.

The father knew that his son was a Christian, and he also knew that his son’s friend was not. The agony of his decision could not be matched by even the torrent waves. “As the father yelled out.’ I love you son!’ he threw the line to his son’s friend. By the time he pulled the friend back to the capsized boat, his son had disappeared beyond the raging swells into the black of night. His sons body was never recovered.”

By this time, the two teenagers were listening very attentively, waiting for the next words to come out of the old man’s mouth.” The father,”continued,”knew his son would step into eternity with Jesus, and he could not bear the thought of his son’s friend stepping into an eternity without Jesus.Therefore, he sacrificed his son.Oh, how great is the love of God that He should do the same for us!”

With that, the old man turned and sat back down his chair as silence filled the room. Within minutes after the service ended, the two teenagers were at the old man’s side.” That was an awesome story,” said one of the boys,” but I don’t think it was very logical for a father to give up his son’s life in hopes that the other boy would become a Christian.”

“Well, you’ve got a point there, the old man replied, glancing down at his down his worn Bible. A big smile broadened his narrow face, and he once again looked up at the boys and said,” It sure isn’t very logical, is it? But I’m here today to tell you the fact THAT story gives me a glimpse of what it must have been like for God to give up His Son for me.”

“You see, a boy….I was the son’s friend.”

Monday, October 12, 2009

My Niece's Wedding


Just recently, my niece Liezl just got married to a guy he met at the church. Both of them are serving the Lord since childhood as her husband is a member of the dance ministry and she is a member of the choir. It was like a dream come true and their story is like destined to happen as ordained by the Lord. Both their parents are very happy to see them tie the knot and anyone can see how much they love each other. Whenever I remember that memorable wedding, I can't help but sigh and wish I would have one like that in the future. Yup, like the rest of the single girls out there... I too is dreaming of a nice wedding. I want it to be solemn and simple but at the same time joyful. I want it to be a celebration of love and I want all of my guests feel that they are a part of our relationship. Jojo and I often discuss that before we sleep and both of us are so excited for that event. We're still on the planning stage but I would really want that to happen next year, hopefully by September. I already have a plan on how the wedding should be and I know that everyone would enjoy the ceremony. I saw that kind of ceremony on Facebook and I would like to adopt the couples gimmick. LOL. I hope after the wedding, all things would fall into it's proper place. I hope there'll come a time that I don't have to work anymore and just spend my spare time playing casino and socialize with my friends. Haha, I know it's not feasible especially in our current financial status but I just hope and pray that after our wedding... God would bless our relationship and would open doors of opportunities for us just like Liezl and his husband. Again to my dear niece, best wishes!

Thursday, October 08, 2009

Expect Blackouts in the Metro





MANILA, Philippines - As the country struggles to rise from the devastation of storms “Ondoy” and “Pepeng,” Metro Manila and Rizal province are facing long power outages after a fire forced the shutdown of a power transformer in Taytay last Wednesday.


The rotating blackouts that the Manila Electric Co. (Meralco) had hoped to end today are expected to drag on after three of its substations tripped “due to critical loading and in its attempt to shift load” to compensate for the shutdown of the Dolores substation of the National Grid Corp. of the Philipines (NGCP).


Meralco said the development “will result in longer duration of power outages in affected areas.”
Meralco, in a statement, said the three substations that conked out were Mandaluyong, Hillcrest and SM-Shangri-La.


“Both the NGCP and Meralco are doing everything to restore normal state of power,” the Meralco statement read. “

We beg your indulgence for this inconvenience.”


Eleven cities and towns in eastern Metro Manila and Rizal province were subjected to rotating blackouts yesterday. Meralco had targeted to restore normal power today but its substations tripped.


The blackouts yesterday lasted three to four hours each twice a day in Makati, Marikina, Mandaluyong, Pasig, San Juan and parts of Quezon City, and Binangonan, Taytay, Angono, Cainta, and Antipolo City in Rizal. Marikina, Pasig and adjacent areas have been experiencing blackouts in the past two weeks due to floods left by tropical storm Ondoy.

In a statement, NGCP said at 8:48 p.m. Wednesday, one of four 300-megavolt ampere (MVA) transformers caught fire, triggering the tripping of the other transformers and five 115-kilovolt lines of Meralco. The fire was contained at around 10:30 p.m. NGCP senior vice president Jesusito Sulit told reporters they would need to spend about P300 million to replace the transformer and another P1 million to replace the cables.

The NGCP said it will repair the damaged equipment and conduct requisite system tests before at least one transformer can be restored. The other transformers available at the Taytay substation were also cut off from the system because the fire had damaged their control cables.


MRT down

The power outage halted the operation of the EDSA-bound Metro Rail Transit (MRT) for more than an hour beginning at 2:15 p.m. Reynaldo Berroya, MRT general manager, said the lack of power supply in the Ortigas and Santolan stations caused the service interruption.

Berroya said there is enough back-up power in the trains to ensure that they stop only at stations.

The Light Rail Transit Authority (LRTA), for its part, said the power outage did not interrupt LRT lines 1 and 2.

“There was no stoppage of operations at both Line 1 and Line 2. We only had a slowdown in Line 2 but this was negligible. We run normally and smoothly at both lines,” Melquiades Robles, LRTA administrator, said.

Working in darkness

Marikina Mayor Marides Fernando said the rotating brownouts have affected rescue, repair and rehabilitation efforts in the city. She called on Meralco to speed up repairs of the NGCP plant in Taytay, noting that Barangays Nangka, Sto. Nino, Malanday and Industrial Valley have had no electricity “for 10 days now.”

“All we can do is explain to them to accept their fate and move on,” Fernando said.

Cainta Mayor Mon Ilagan said they had to make do with candles at the municipal hall. “We have to take care of our evacuees and the absence of electricity is hurting our relief operation,” he said.

Metro police chief Director Roberto Rosales ordered maximum deployment of uniformed policemen in the streets of eastern Metro Manila to prevent looting. Rosales ordered that all individuals loitering the streets, especially during the wee hours of the morning, should be accosted and questioned.

Energy Secretary Angelo Reyes, for his part, ordered the immediate restoration of power in Pasig, Cainta, Marikina, and San Juan. Reyes said the NGCP has responded to the directive by directly coordinating with Meralco for the immediate restoration of electricity in the affected areas.

“I am confident that Meralco and NGCP will be able to re-establish connection of power in the areas and this should be done immediately. Restoring power will restore balance in those areas,” Reyes said.

For the past months since assuming operations and management of the National Transmission Corp. (TransCo) in January, NGCP has been implementing numerous repair, upgrade and modernization of TransCo’s equipment and facilities.

Most of the assets assumed by NGCP were supposed to last for 30 years, but they have reportedly been deteriorating or have already bogged down. NGCP is the vehicle used by the consortium composed of State Grid Corp. of China (SGCC), Monte Oro Grid Resources Corp., and Calaca High Power Corp., which won the bidding for a 25-year lease agreement for TransCo.

Applying its world-class expertise in transmission management, SGCC is aiming to make the NGCP the No.1 transmission firm in Southeast Asia. In 2008, SGCC, China’s leading power transmission and distribution company, recorded sales revenues of $160 billion or a 15.2 percent increase from 2007 figures.

It ranked 24th in the 2008 Fortune’s Global 500. With total assets of $240 billion and 1.5 million employees, SGCC serves over one billion people and has 145 million customers. In 2010, SGCC sees all the households in its franchise areas in China energized.

Aside from the Philippines, SGCC has overseas operations in other parts of Asia, Africa and Europe.

NGCP president Walter Brown earlier said they intended to allocate P10 billion in capital expenditure under its Transmission Development Plan. – With Rainier Allan Ronda - By Donnabelle Gatdula and Non Alquitran (Philstar News Service, www.philstar.com)




Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Why I Was Spared Of Ondoy's Rage



Right after our shift last Friday (that would be Saturday morning), the heavy rain fell - right after I was safe at the comfort of our home...right after I comfortably wore my usual "pambahay"...right after I have eaten my hearty lunch - the rage of Ondoy was felt all over Manila...

I don't know what I did to deserve being spared by this plague. I am not an ideal Christian, I rarely go to Church - I guess I've been to Church service only once for the past five years and that was when my brother got married. I was ordained by our Pastor to reach out to people so God's word would be known to them but instead - I was sitting comfortably in front of the television watching some feel good movie during Sundays. I lie, cheat, steal unconsciously...doing things a non Christian does...having in mind that those are just "little evil things" that almost everyone commits everyday. I don't deserve being spared and yet I still have a roof over my head, food at the table and dry clothes to warm my body while others suffer with grief due to loss of loved ones, friends, possessions and even their very little drive to start their lives all over again. For them, they would again start from scratch...building their homes little by little ... reconstructing their dreams they built for years...putting together all that was lost in a snap...

I still can't see any logical reason why God would spare a sinner like me but He sure made me realize a couple of things that I never would have thought if this tragedy did not took place. He made me realize the value if life... that there is no rich or poor when calamity strikes. He made me realize that I need to number my days and live my life to the fullest everyday. I need to laugh and enjoy life as if there is no tomorrow and love as if there will be no other chance to love but now... and pray as if I would meet my creator anytime soon. God made me realize that I need not work just to store money on earth where worms and moth (or calamities like typhoon Ondoy) could destroy but rather store up riches in Heaven and use my finances wisely to also be a blessing to others. That I need to look for every opportunity to help my neighbors in whatever help I am capable of giving. Maybe the reason we did not experience Ondoy's rage is because God wants us to be a channel of blessings to those who are needful of love and encouragement... to give hope to others who does'nt know how to start living their lives again and to share God's provision and love to everyone. He gave us another chance to realize what the purpose of our lives are and gave us the ability to help those in need - I think that itself is the reason why so many of us were spared. I think that itself is the reason why we still have our bed, our computers, our radio, our PSPs, our Ipods, our celphones while others did not even know where to get their next meal.

There is a greater purpose why God allowed this thing to happen - we might not be able to fully grasp the reason behind it now but in time...it will made known to us. Let us still sing the song of praise to God because calamities DOES'NT change the fact that GOD IS STILL GOOD ALL THE TIME... ALL the time...
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